Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Doers of the Word

Tim Shaw
Adult Education Pastor

"My brothers, show no partiality as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory. 2 For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in, 3 and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, “You sit here in a good place,” while you say to the poor man, “You stand over there,” or, “Sit down at my feet,” 4 have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?" James 2:1-4 (ESV)

James chapter 1 teaches us that mature Christians are not only patient in their testing, but they also practice the truth. James referred to this as being doers of the Word – not hearers only. This theme of practicing your faith is continued now in chapter 2 where James gives some specific illustrations and examples of what it looks like to either fail to practice our faith or to succeed.

A command is given that as believers we are not to show partiality to people. James then gives a simple test to see if they would practice their faith or resort back to evil thinking. Give yourself the same test. Two visitors show up for a church service. One of them is rich, dressed in fine clothes and expensive jewelry. He no doubt has neatly combed hair and I suspect reasonably good looking. The second visitor to come into the service is poor. His clothes are dirty and he is not wearing any jewelry. I imagine he might even have a foul odor about him and he is not clean shaven much less has his hair combed.

The test is how will you treat your two visitors? James points out that if you pay special attention to the rich man, offer him the best seat in the auditorium, and talk with him as if you desire to be his friend; then treat the poor differently, telling him he can either sit on the floor or stand in the back of the auditorium then we have made a grave mistake and demonstrated that we are not practicing true Christianity.

Let me give an illustration from my own experience. The church I attended during my first year of seminary had a homeless ministry that sent church members into the downtown area on Saturday nights to witness to the homeless and invite them to church the next day. On Sunday morning, drivers would go back to the downtown area and bring any of the homeless that wanted to attend church. What I loved about this ministry is that the church body as a whole loved on those homeless people and they saw the love of Christ through the church body. Also, the Life Groups rotated providing lunch for the homeless that came to the service that Sunday. This gave several members the opportunity to not only show them love in the actual church service, but also to sit and talk with them one-on-one. It was heartwarming to see how many in that church grew spiritually as a result of this ministry.

Sadly, we make the same mistakes that James is pointing out. We tend to judge people outwardly rather than inwardly. Socio-economic status, dress, race and other superficial things often carry the weight of our decision to like someone. Did you know that how you treat other people reveals what you believe about God? 1 John 4:20 tells us, "If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen." You may say well this does not describe me. Are you sure? Have you ever gone out of your way to make a new friend with someone who thinks, looks, and acts like you? That is easy. When was the last time you went out of your way to make friends with or even to make contact with someone vastly different than you?

Why are we prone to act this way? James identifies the motive is sin or "evil thoughts" that cause us to make judgments of people base solely on outward appearances. How then do we practice our Christianity in our relationships? I know this is easier said than done, but we are to look at people the same way Christ looks at them. We are to love all people either because Christ lives in them, or if they are not a believer, because Christ died for them. The basis of our relationships with other people is the Person of Jesus Christ. Furthermore, God can use a person for His glory that we deem unlikely. Look at Matthew, the tax collector, and Paul, the Christian murderer. He can use the poor person that we tend to reject.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Strike Up The Band

Nathan Stam
Communication/Children's Pastor

This past summer I took Aidan (our three year old) to his first movie at the movie theater. We went to see Wall-E*. I have to confess that one of my favorite things to do is go see a movie and sit down with a Coke and Nachos (Kristi prefers popcorn so we generally alternate what we get). It’s not an addiction per-say, but I do get the itch to see a movie quite often. I attribute this to my family having no TV in our house until I was in high school. It was probably good for my early childhood development, but it’s come back to bite me in my 20s and now, gulp, my 30s. It’s almost like my addiction to Mountain Dew, but not quite that bad.

The whole experience with Aidan was very cool. Just watching his face as he took everything in--all the other kids buzzing around, the BIG screen, buying his first little kid’s combo with a slushi and popcorn, and, of course, the seat that was a little too big and constantly threatened to swallow him up. Every few minutes during the film I’d hear a thwunk and look over to discover Aidan’s seat had once again snapped shut and he needed help escaping its clutches. During the previews he was dancing to one of the songs and he looked over at me with a big grin on his face and said, “I like it, Dad! I really do!” Now, this might seem like a silly or superficial example, but my heart swelled up big to see my son so filled with joy over something so small. It reminded me of a verse from Psalm 149:

“Hallelujah! Sing to God a brand-new song, praise him in the company of all who love him. Let all Israel celebrate their Sovereign Creator, Zion's children exult in their King. Let them praise his name in dance; strike up the band and make great music! And why? Because God delights in his people…

A Father delighting in the joy of his son is just a whisper of how God delights in his children. He rejoices over us with singing! Life isn’t always going to be fair or pain-free, but this is an amazing truth—the God of the heavens delights in the joy and the praise of his children.

I’m sure I’ll have better examples of this as Aidan grows up, but this is what I’ve got right now and it’s enough. My heart is filled with gratitude to my Heavenly Father who cares for his children.

Now, I wonder what’s playing at Beaver Creek this weekend?

*Wall-E, by the way, was very very good. It didn’t have a lot of witty banter and dialogue, which was great for Aidan. It’s basically about robots cleaning up trash, zooming around in space, saving humanity—you know, all of those day-to-day mundane tasks that we all take for granted. I definitely recommend it.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Thoughts on Marriage

Peter Dubbelman
Administration/Family Life Pastor

Nobody gets married with the intent of their family falling apart. But a lot of them do! Why?

Most sensible people, when asked if they would prefer a happy and fulfilling family life or a prosperous career would pick the former. Yet their actions show a preference for the later. They apply themselves diligently to their job, take refresher courses and put in extra hours, often at the cost of a relationship with their spouse and children.

Life’s constant and unexpected demands can unmercifully rob us of valuable family time. Our families are not something that can be continually put on auto pilot. The foolish person that does may soon be flying into a mountain of disappointment and hurt.

If you are married, please consider attending one of the two marriage seminars our church is promoting.

Festival of Marriage: October 24-26 in Asheville. Please contact Holly Ladner @ 567-2699 for more details.

Seeing Your Marriage through the Eyes of God: February 28 at ABC. Please contact Peter Dubbelman at x228 for more details.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Peace and the Ocean

Nathan Stam
Children/Communications Pastor

I love the ocean. Almost every year of my life my family has spent at least one week down on Topsail Island. I love the wind, the sand, the sound of the waves, being with family, dolphins swimming out in the shallows--I even love the sun, occasionally. Not only those things, but there are a lot of good memories associated with the beach in my life. Especially memories with my family—looking for shark’s teeth, late night games of Balderdash, my Mom getting hit with a water balloon launched from a spudzooka 100 yards away, filming “How To Avoid Shark Attack” videos, walks on the beach with my wife and eating tons and tons of good food. There have been a lot of good memories over the years at the ocean.

A lot of times we compare the majesty and the grandeur of the ocean with God--the vastness of the ocean amazes us. We look at it's raw power--the currents, the pounding of the waves and riptides that will carry you away without a moment's notice and we are in awe. But to me it's not always the bigness of the ocean that points me to God, it's the peace that I see in the continual rolling of the waves--the rhythm of the water. When I look out on the ocean I don't know how to say it any better way except that peace floods my entire being—I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that the same God who created these waters and these tides holds his children in his righteous right hand. And that gives my heart peace. I love what Jesus says in John 14.

Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Your heart must not be troubled or fearful.

This peace isn’t a promise of a happy life or of a follower of Jesus being safe and secure from all physical alarms and harms. It is a promise of peace with God and a promise that in the end this God that created the seas will triumph over all the evil in the world. And this peace goes beyond anything that we could ever imagine or understand. Paul writes that it transcends understanding. That’s the kind of peace I need. And that’s why I love the ocean.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

A Blast From The Past

We've got a little something special for this week's blog in honor of this past Sunday's Class of 2008 service. Many of you probably saw some dashing and distinguished young pictures from the staff during the first worship service. After many hours of grueling soul-searching we've (actually, that would be me) decided to post these pictures and a few comments for your edification and encouragement during this extremely hot month of June.

So, without further ado...

Our fearless and intrepid leader!


The craziest topspin this side of the Mississippi.


37 years and still going strong!


Napoleon D.?


Take two and call me in the morning...Ode Boyka!


I'm totally unashamed of the mullet and my shorts.


Ms. A. Poe


Tall, Dutch and Handsome


Nothing can stop my devastating bicycle kick.


I love my Andrea Bocelli ringtone.

Without me, staff lunches descend into total confusion.


His post-trib leanings and full NCSU allegiance give B the whole package.

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Handling The “Grand Floridians” Of LIFE

Matt Rice
Church Plant Pastor

We recently went to Disney World ……with kids (Mollie and Andrew only), my brother-in-laws family, and Grammy and Papaw. What an experience. Notice I did not say vacation. We stayed at the Double Tree which accommodated our family – all 11 of us perfectly.

One day while out in the Magic Kingdom, we stopped by the Grand Floridian Resort. This place was pretty incredible. They have their own lake, they have pools with sand on the bottom, and incredible views of the Magic Kingdom only a ferry ride away. The “opportunities” at the Grand Floridian were limitless (or they seemed) and posh.

In life some of the best opportunities can be the worst distractions. In Nehemiah 6, Nehemiah was rebuilding the temple wall to restore worship in the city of Jerusalem. When those opposed to this task heard of his work they invited him to Ono, the “Grand Floridian” of the Day located on the Fertile Crescent. They did so to distract him from the task he was called of God to do.

Nehemiah was focused on his calling and task. He responded in verse 3 with one of the greatest statements, “I AM DOING A GREAT WORK AND I CANNOT COME DOWN.” Maybe in life you have had better opportunities come your way and can easily justify them with reasoning such as, “Its more money; It’s a bigger house; It will be better for the kids; It makes me happier.”

I want to encourage you to be focused on what God has called you to do (Micah 6:8) so that when the “Grand Floridians” come your way you are able to boldly and confidently say, “I AM DOING A GREAT WORK AND I CANNOT COME DOWN.”

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Zeal Without Knowledge

Peter Dubbelman
Family Life/Admin. Pastor

Hindsight definitely presents us with twenty-twenty vision. Looking over our lives most of us would readily agree that “the plans of the diligent lead to profit, just as surely as haste leads to ruin” (Pro 21.5).

Now that some of the anxious zeal of youth have passed by me; now that I have weathered some storms caused by my own haste and anxiousness; now that I have fathered children through their own anxious and zealous times. I can say that I have tasted first handed and seen also in the lives of others that “it is not good to have zeal without knowledge nor to be hasty and miss the way” (Pro 19.2).

What balanced lives we would have if we took two things to heart: living each day as if it were our last but planning each day as though our world would endure forever; resting in the understanding that the faithfulness of today will prepare us for the steps of tomorrow. May our Lord “teach us to number our days aright, that we might gain a heart of wisdom” from which we can sensibly embark upon the opportunities of each day.