Tuesday, May 26, 2009

A Call To Fast

We've been challenged this week to fast together as a church during a 24 hour period (Phil suggested sundown Friday to sundown Saturday, but it's your own choice as to when this week) and we just wanted to take a few moments and provide some items for us as a church body to pray for during the fast and to discuss some reasons as to why we do fast and how exactly we should fast.

First, here are a few prayer points to lift up during your 24 hour fast with your family:

1. Pray that as men we would not be afraid to step up to the plate, but would lead our families with integrity and conviction.
2. Pray that as women we would have the courage of Esther and humbly devote ourselves to the Lord.
3. Pray that God would bring revival to our families and subsequently to our church.
4. Pray that as families we would delight to spend time together in God's Word.
5. Pray that we would become families (men, women and children) who are passionate about prayer.

So why do we fast anyway? In the Bible prayer is often times accompanied by fasting (see Nehemiah or Esther) and is usually seen as a time of intense supplication, worship or repentance. Wayne Grudem lists some excellent reasons as to the purpose of fasting:

1. It increases our sense of humility and dependence on God.
2. It allows us to give more attention on prayer.
3. It is a reminder that just as we sacrifice to some small part of our comfort to God (not eating) so we must continually sacrifice all of ourselves to God.
4. It is a good exercise in self-discipline (strengthens our ability to refrain from sin). (Hebrews 5:8; 1 Peter 4:1-2)
5. It heightens our awareness of spiritual things as we concern ourselves less with material things (food).
6. It expresses earnestness and urgency in our prayers.

We look forward to how God will move mightily in our midst as we gather back together this Sunday!

Friday, May 15, 2009

Interesting Videos

Here are two interesting videos (one on abortion and one on a believer's relationship to the poor):




Wednesday, May 13, 2009

A Look at Colossians 1

Nathan Stam
Children/Communications Pastor

Phil has challenged us during this current sermon series to memorize Colossians 1:15-20. In light of that challenge I thought it might be a good idea to take a quick glimpse at those verses in this blog.

Some believe that these verses were some kind of hymn or creed of the early church that Paul has pieced together, which is pretty cool if true.

In verse 15 we read that in Jesus the invisible has become visible. The very nature and character of God have been perfectly revealed in Jesus. We also see that same thought in the book of Hebrews. The word “firstborn” here in verse 15 is referring to Christ’s supremacy over creation, or his rank. It’s not saying that he is a created being, it is saying that he is above all created things. He is the Lord of creation.

Paul goes on to expand on this thought in verse 16. He basically says that good or bad, everything is subject to Christ. In fact, Paul is probably referring to hostile rulers or authorities. They all derive their existence from Jesus and they all owe their obedience to Him. Remember, Paul is talking about someone, Jesus, a common criminal, who was crucified maybe only around 25 years before this was written! This sounded like foolishness to a whole lot of people!

In verse 17 we read that there was never a time when Jesus wasn’t! He is before all things! And Jesus sustains all things. If he wasn’t sustaining the universe at this exact moment everything would disintegrate. He sustains all things by his powerful word!

Again, in verses 18 & 19 we read that all the attributes of God—-his wisdom, word, power, glory-—all are perfectly displayed in Jesus Christ.

Paul has emphasized so far that Jesus is Lord of everything and that everything was created by him, through him and for him. But something happened to this creation when sin entered into it that caused everything to be distorted and messed up. Here's the good news though: despite that sobering truth, verse 20 tells us that Christ on the cross has made peace or reconciled those who trust in His Name! Because the Bible is very clear that when we were not believers we were enemies of God and under his wrath. We needed to be reconciled. And Jesus did that on the cross once and for all!

I don't know about you, but I'm excited about memorizing these verses over the next few weeks and having these amazing truths alive in my heart where I can meditate and think on them!

Monday, May 4, 2009

Heart Connex!

We wanted to let you know about a free resource that we thought was appropriate in light of our current sermon series. These are free family e-devotionals that are provided by Lifeway called "Heart Connex."

"Each week, parents receive two 20-minute devotionals via e-mail. These studies contain solid Bible teaching. The eDevotions are set up so that students and parents alike are involved, with each given specific things to say or do.

These eDevotionals are designed for very busy families. You can easily print the studies and make preparations in only about five minutes."

Check it out. It's Free!! Just click here!

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Coming This Weekend!

There are a couple of exciting opportunities for you this weekend that we wanted to let you know about!
  1. Saturday (May 2) is Peak Day in downtown Apex. It's a great time when thousands of folks come and hangout in the streets downtown. We'll be there all day and we'd love for you to come and join us. We'll put up the moonwalk and have other games for kids including face painting and we'll be inviting kids to come to VBS this summer in June. If you'd like to come and help send Chuck or Matthew an email.
  2. Saturday night (May 2) we're kicking off our "Center" sermon series during the month of May with a men's dinner called IGNITE. Warren Lamb is coming and it will be awesome. If you're a man and you haven't signed up yet send Amanda an email. The dinner starts at 6:00 PM and we'll be done by 8:00.
  3. On Sunday, May 3, Hand of Hope Pregnancy Resource Center is hosting its annual Walk For Life from 2:00-4:00 at South Park in Fuquay Varina. Hand of Hope reaches out to young ladies with the hope of Christ and is an invaluable ministry in our neck of the woods. You can read more about Hand of Hope or the Walk For Life by clicking here.

Monday, April 27, 2009

Empty Nesters


Peter Dubbelman
Family Life Pastor and Church Administrator



Our last child, Ruth, is getting ready to leave for college this fall. Though we realize that our kids may be in and out of our house during the next several years, Brenda and I are excited about this new adventure that awaits us—being empty nesters. We believe that our best years are still ahead of us.

"Empty Nesters" face unique opportunities and challenges. We typically have more time and finances then we are used to, but we also are navigating new waters; e.g., ageing parents and adult children, a stronger need to be partner focused rather than child focused, and letting go of past disappointments and moving forward.

I want you to know about some exciting, useful opportunities at ABC that apply just to you:
  • Roger Repp has started a Life Group class geared to empty nesters. If you are not already a part of a Life Group, please pray about this opportunity. For more information you can reach Roger at his e-mail address or see the above image for more info on the class.
  • Brenda and I are reading a book on Empty Nesters: The Second Half of Marriage by David and Claudia Arp. It is published by Zondervan and has a Christian emphasis; and so far we like it. There are other books that address our demographic, but you might want to read it together as a couple.
  • Brenda and I are also praying about leading a monthly discussion group on the above book or one similar. Right now, if there is enough interest in the idea, I’m thinking about starting it in either September ’09 or ’10 with a monthly evening meeting around food, fellowship, and book discussion; we’ll then culminate with the group going away for a weekend of fellowship, fun, and worship; however, I am open to suggestions. I’m not only wrestling with the idea but also with whether there is enough interest in doing something like this. So help me out. Ideally, I would prefer you join a community discussion of this idea or whatever else is in your heart with regards to Empty Nesters in the comments below. Simply click on the comments link under this entry and let us know what you think. You may also contact Brenda and I directly.
May our Lord continue richly to bless your marriage!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

What's Wrong?

Alex Cosio
Pastor of Hispanic Ministries

I heard the story of a young man whose friends played a prank on him. While he was asleep, they rubbed an ointment with a very bad odor on his upper lip underneath his nose. When he woke up he complained: “this room stinks!” So he left the room and went outside. As he was walking through the hallway he said: “this hallway surely stinks.” He got into his car; as he started driving, he noticed the bad odor in his car too, so he complained: “this car is really stinky!” Everywhere he went he complained saying: “This really stinks.” It took him a while to realize that he was the one who stunk!

This story illustrates a problem that is common to many of us. There are people who constantly complain; and complain about everything. They complain about their neighbor, about their friends, their coworkers, their children, their spouse, their boss, their church, the prices, the government, the weather, etc. Do you know anybody like that? It is very easy to see the wrongs and defects on everybody else and never ask ourselves: “Could it be me the one that is wrong?”
The Lord Jesus said: “Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eyes are good, your whole body also is full of light. But when they are bad, your body also is full of darkness. See to it, then, that the light within you is not darkness.” (Luke 11:34-35) What a revelation! Could it be that we need to come into the light? What a difference the light makes around us! Jesus said: "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." (John 8:12)

The Lord promises that if we come into his light everything around us will look different. Your neighbor might be the same but will look different because of the light of Jesus. Your spouse might be the same, but it will look different because of the light of Jesus. Before we complain and judge, let us ask ourselves: Am I looking through the light of Jesus or through the darkness of this world? Let us challenge ourselves by asking: Am I walking in the light of Jesus?