Happy Marriage

Alex Cosio
Pastor of Hispanic Ministries

It has been some time since Diana and Fred said their wedding vows and began their life as a married couple. Their marriage has gone through difficult times because of Fred's exploding character and the emotional and sometimes physical abuse of both. Diana has looked for help with a pastor but Fred has rejected the help and does not accept responsibility in the conflict. It seems like any attempts to reconcile is not working. Can they be happy some day?

These are fictitious characters but reflect what many of us go
through in our own marriages. For some the solution is separation and/or divorce. Some others remain together for the wrong reasons but live miserably.

What is the secret for a happy marriage? The Lord Jesus Christ
in the gospel of Matthew 7:24-27 in the conclusion of the Sermon on the Mount tells a wonderful illustration that has transformed millions of people for two thousand years. Whoever hears his Word and puts them to practice, is like a man who builds his house upon the rock. When the winds blow and the rain come and the rivers run and hit with might against the house, it will stand because is foundation is the Rock. But whoever hears his Word and does not put them to practice is like a fool who builds his house upon the sand. When the winds blow and the rain come and the rivers run and hit with might against the house it will come down and its ruin will be great.

Build your house, your life, your marriage, your family on the Rock. We all have setbacks and difficulties, the difference is whether you put the Word of God into practice in your own life or not. May God bless you and your marriage and your family!